An 8-Week Group for Emerging Into Your Messy Brilliance



An 8-Week Group for Emerging Into Your Messy Brilliance

What has the past year been like for you? Has it brought you some unexpected peace and quiet? Or has it been stressful, disconnecting, and unnerving? Have you stopped to ask yourself: Where am I going from here? What will it be like to return to some state of normal? Is that even possible? Who will I be when all of this is over?

It goes without saying that 2020, and even the time we are in now, was an incredibly difficult period for so many of us. A time of uncomfortable waiting: waiting for a pandemic to pass, waiting for a political season fraught with division to give way to saner times, waiting for life to return to normal. 

Which, let’s face it, is probably never going to happen. There is no such thing as normal!

Every single one of us is in a transitional state as we move into the next phase of our lives, as we continue to grapple with COVID-19 and the massive changes occurring on a personal and global level. 

In this process, you’ve probably discovered some surprising truths. Maybe you were one of the people who found solace in solitude and the opportunity to turn inward. Or maybe social distancing has made you crave connection on a much deeper level and revealed a void you didn’t know was there. 

Right now, I know you can identify a place—or several places—in your life where you feel yourself in that uncomfortable transitional phase between “I’m done with this” and “I don’t know if I’m quite ready for that…or if I can even identify what ‘that’ is!”


We all know the transformation from a caterpillar into a butterfly is beautiful, not to mention miraculous.

But the waiting period inside the cocoon can be dark, painful, treacherous, and seemingly endless.

Not to mention, really freaking messy.

That’s why I’m offering an opportunity for a special group of women to gather in an intimate community for eight weeks and figure out what’s emerging in this transitional time.

CHRYSALIS: An 8-Week Group for Emerging into Your Messy Brilliance is for you: the woman who’s ready to cocoon, dive deep, and emerge into the next phase of her life with greater clarity and authenticity. 

This is not a place to “problem-solve” or “fix” your “broken” life. It’s a place where you get to drop in with a like-hearted group of fellow journeyers and figure out what’s next for you through a gentle, organic process. You won’t be guided to figure it out with your head, but you will be offered guidance for finding your way through the darkness…by using the compass of your heart’s knowing.

This is the process of connecting with your messy brilliance. The beautiful part of you that tends to hide out in the darkness and undergo its transformation in the deepest depths. It’s the quiet feminine force inside each of us that is secretly responsible for all of creation—not by forcing its way through but by emerging organically from the chrysalis, just like a butterfly.

Chrysalis: noun

1. A quiescent insect pupa, especially of a butterfly or moth: “The transformation from egg to caterpillar to chrysalis and, finally, adult.”
2. The hard outer case enclosing a chrysalis: “The splitting of the chrysalis and the slow unfolding of the wings.”
3. A transitional state: “She emerged from the chrysalis of the last year and spread her wings to fly.”

Change Is Inevitable—and It Can Also Be Sacred

For me, the past year has been one of much-needed rest. In Judaism, the “shmita” year is an opportunity to let the land rest after six years of work. The word literally means “release” and is a time in which the land is left fallow. 

Many of us require our own fallow period in which we get to do nothing, or very little compared to our normal mode. A time in which we can actually learn to surrender. A time in which we can momentarily give up our ceaseless activity and simply be with what is present, with what life is trying to tell us.

A sacred time. (And also a scary time!)

The great thing is, after the waiting period is over, we usually find ourselves in a brand-new place. And sometimes, it’s a place that exceeds our wildest expectations. 

Over the eight weeks of CHRYSALIS, along with a small group of soul sisters, you’ll get the support and tools you need to make the best of this transitional time and to give yourself the space you need to emerge from the darkness of this fallow period and into the light of your truth and your future. 

Together, we’ll dive into the seven transformational tools from my book, Your Messy Brilliance: 7 Tools for the Perfectly Imperfect Woman. More than once, these tools have saved my life and helped me to connect with all parts of myself so I could then move out into the world and make life happen on my own terms.

We’ll move through the internal phase of applying Curiosity, Awareness, Acceptance, and Intuition—so that we can connect the world inside with the world outside as we apply Choice, Manifestation, and something I like to call the Infinite Roadmap of our lives…which we will come back to over and over through all the bumps, twists, and detours.

CHRYSALIS is a nurturing, deeply feminine space for you to drop in, get real, and bring your entire mess, which is the force of transformation we all need. 

In the words of the beautiful changemaking inaugural poet Amanda Gorman, “The first bud of spring sings the other seeds into joining her uprising.”

How are you preparing for the springtime? What part of you is transforming and rising up to join its voice to the chorus of change?

I hope you’ll join me on this journey.

Because it’s time for the butterfly to emerge from the chrysalis.

dates & Schedule

We’ll meet for eight weeks, one hour at a time, on Zoom—from 4 to 5 p.m. PST/7 to 8 p.m. EST:
May 18, 25
June 1, 8, 15, 22, 28
July 6

Registration for CHRYSALIS ends Thursday, May 13th.

Week 1: Introduction: Enter the Cocoon
Week 2: Curiosity: Learn Your Inner Landscape
Week 3: Awareness: Get Present to What Is
Week 4: Acceptance: Practice the Feminine Art of Surrender
Week 5: Intuition: Feel Your Way from Darkness to Light
Week 6: Choice: Connect with Authentic Power
Week 7: Manifestation: Make Magic Every Day
Week 8: The Infinite Roadmap: Emerge from the Chrysalis


With each of our pricing options below*, you will receive the following:

Tier 1: $199
8-week support group + Your Messy Brilliance ebook (an approximate value of $220)

Tier 2:
8-week support group +
Your Messy Brilliance ebook + Your Messy Brilliance paperback + Truthtell or Future Is Female t-shirt + Clarity Call with Kelly (an approximate value of $609)

Tier 3: $599

8-week support group +
Your Messy Brilliance ebook + Your Messy Brilliance paperback + Truthtell or Future Is Female t-shirt + Clarity Call with Kelly + a Women For One course of your choice (an approximate value of $959)

All payments are non-refundable. Please pay the highest amount you are able to at this time. 

*Paying on the higher end will ensure that Women For One has the support it needs to help the women in our community share their Trutheller stories on our site, and to offer free and subsidized resources to our tribe.


CHRYSALIS is a powerful but intimate journey, and there are a very limited number of spots for women who are ready to go deep. Registration for this workshop ends Thursday, May 13th.

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